Four months of travel completed, each of them special in its own way. The first one was about discovery and learning; the second, the month of changes. The third month turned around the idea of being lucky and working hard to achieve our dreams.
I will remember this month for all the unexpected things that happened, mostly thanks to couchsurfing. In parallel, I also discovered my introvert side.
These are the reflections of my fourth month of solo travel, with a summary of the places I visited and the best moments I had.

Couchsurfing and unexpected things
I landed in Malaysia without any plans. I was more interested in its people and culture than visiting specific places, which is the reason why I decided to do couchsurfing there. So, completely unplanned, I let the trip guide me… and it did very well. Completely unexpected. I thought I would stay 3 weeks and I stayed 5, I thought I would go to Singapore and never made it. But I did plenty of things I would have never dreamt of.
Teaching in a school
I had never considered teaching, but in only two days in a school in a rural area I discovered a new dimension of teaching: inspiring the kids.

Celebrating the Chinese New Year with a Chinese family
I arrived to Penang without any plans nor bookings. Thanks to that and the couchsurfing community, from my first host I met a second and then a third one, and I ended up in a Chinese family’s house for the New Year.

Taking care of a hostel
One of my hosts had just opened a hostel, and he allowed me to stay in the dorm for free in exchange of a review and some help. The last day he asked another couchsurfing member and me to take care of the hostel since he needed to visit his family.

Traveling more than 400km by motorbike
If one year ago some had told me one day I would be excited about a motorbike trip, I would not have believe it. I had always seen motorbikes and scooters as unstable dangerous things. No way I would ride one. Ever.
But I guess you cannot really experience Asia without traveling by scooter, so I overcame my fears several times and got some short rides in India, Thailand, Laos and Cambodia. After that, I started to think that they might not be so dangerous after all, and quite useful.
Finally, in Penang, I made a friend who had a real motorbike (you know, the really cool ones). And there, instead of being more scared I started enjoying more the experience, to the point that we went back from Kapas island to Penang by motorbike. More than 400km. And yeah… it was cool.


My introvert side
I had always thought I was a very social person. However, after two weeks of sleeping in dorms and doing couchsurfing, I started missing a little bit the quiet days I previously had. I missed having a meal in a restaurant reading a book. I missed having time to write. I missed having time to think.
I missed being alone.


The thought struck me. Had I become unsocial after three months traveling alone?
My only explanation is that I have an introvert and an extrovert side that live together, alternating each other. Sometimes I feel like talking to everyone, even the walls. Sometimes I need silence. I was very surprised to learn that some people like (prefer!) to sleep in dorms. They told me that they would feel sad if they had no one to talk with at the end of the day. Wow. I only sleep in dorms when I cannot afford a room. I like to have my own space, and spend time in the common areas if I feel like meeting people.

Places visited
- Malaysia: Kuala Lumpur, Perak, Penang (island), Kota Bharu, Perhentian Kecil island, Kapas island, Penang (mainland and island) and Kuala Lumpur.
Favorite places
- Kuala Lumpur, Perenthian and Kapas islands.


Best experiences
- Feeling the modernity of Kuala Lumpur (and going to a lot of shopping malls, even though I did not buy anything).
- Teaching in a school and getting positive feedback from the kids.
- Snorkeling in the Perhentian islands.
- Being lazy and watching the sunset in Kapas island.
- Traveling by motorbike.
- Eating great food in Penang.
- Making new friends that will last forever!


What’s next
I cannot believe that I left Malaysia almost two months ago! Yes, I am a bit late with the blog…
From Kuala Lumpur I flied to Australia, where I visited a friend for two weeks. After that I spent five weeks in New Zealand. I hope to catch up soon and tell you about these beautiful countries. And now, I just arrived to South America… stay tuned!
You can also get the latest updates of my trip by following the facebook page.
Sounds like you’re having a blast! That Perhentian Islands Sunset looks lovely! Looking forward to reading all your Australia and New Zealand posts !!
Yes, the sunsets on the islands were stunning, and I really enjoyed my time in Malaysia! The next post is about Australia 🙂
Beautiful photos, they make me wanna go back to Asia! Safe travels!
Thank you! Yes, Asia has something special… I will go back one day!
Safe and happy travels!
I hope NZ treated you well! Look forward to your next posts!
Yes, NZ was amazing! I must say that the weather in the west coast of the south island was challenging, but after that it was wonderful! It must be great to live in such beautiful country, five weeks were not enough 🙂
Sounds like you’re having a great time discovering new things in the places you are and in yourself. I can definitely relate to the introvert / extrovert thing that you have but on the flip side. I think I’m more an introvert on that spectrum, but if I go too long without outside interaction I crave people. Very strange!
Yes, I think we humans are very complex and strange! And travelling helps to discover new things, specially when going out of our comfort zone 🙂
Looking forward & wishing you a great weekend, Laia! ?
Thank you, have a great weekend too! 🙂
Great to read your update Laia and good to hear that you enjoyed Australia and New Zealand too! Have been busy with travels and family stuff recently so haven’t been on the blog as much but catching up now and will read all the posts that I’ve missed. Take care and happy travels! 🙂
Happy to hear about you! I hope you enjoyed the trip to Europe (I have to catch up with your blog too! I have had some problems with internet…). Happy travels 🙂
It can be difficult to access the Internet sometimes when travelling! Safe and happy travels ?
Time flies when you are having fun! Looking forward to reading about my home country of Australia
Yes, time goes so fast! I enjoyed a lot Australia and hope I will be able to go back one day 🙂
Laia, hope you are doing well! Love reading your blog especially on Malaysia, and it’sit’s great to know you had a great time too. Take care and be safe 🙂
Hi Ainu! Yes, I’m fine and the trip is going very well! So happy you liked the posts about Malaysia, I really enjoyed it there 🙂
Take care, happy travels! 🙂
Hi, In 3 days I’m leaving for Asia for half a year 🙂 I have a question for you…how much did you pay for a flight ticket from New Zealand to Asia? I know that Airasia is flying from Australia to KL, Bangkok,…but is there also any cheap option to get from Asia to NZ?
Hi! When I searched my flights, the cheapest option for me was to fly from Kuala Lumpur to Sydney (Air Asia, 140 euros) and from Sydney to Christchurch, NZ (Virgin Australia, 145 euros), considering that with a Spanish passport I needed a visa for Australia but it was free. Flying directly from Kuala Lumpur or Singapore to New Zealand was more expensive, at least 400 or 500 euros. So, if you have time and do not have to pay for a visa in Australia, I think that might be the cheapest option. Have a nice trip!